“Everyone wants a village, but no one wants to be a villager.”
I saw an instagram post a few weeks ago that said “everyone wants a village but no one wants to be a villager” and it really struck a chord with me.
Clearly, since I’m still thinking about it weeks later and am now going so far as to write up a blog post about it!
As I have made my transition from full-time people management in a large company, to focusing on my own small business and community engagement, I’m seeing this play out in real time. Everyone says they want connection, belonging, community. But when it comes to the actual work of being in community, i.e. showing up, following through, giving without the promise of getting, a lot of people disappear.
It’s made me reflect on what being a ‘villager’ really means.
To me, it means checking in even when you’re busy. It means offering help without waiting to be asked. It means showing up to your friend’s class, event, or soft launch. It means caring about people when there’s nothing shiny or convenient about it. It means giving without the expectation that you will get anything back.
It means that when one of us wins, we all win.
In the corporate world, we talk a lot about culture, collaboration, and inclusion. But outside of those structured walls, there is no handbook and no one holding you accountable to those values. It’s up to you to hold yourself accountable to those values.
If you want a village, first ask yourself: How are you being a good villager?
If you can’t answer that question you have some work to do.
Don’t just wait for the village to show up, start building it.
Why Marketing for Fitness Companies Should Start with Community
Earth Day Clean Up with lululemon Totem Lake and Totem Lake Run Club
In a fitness industry saturated with online ads, trendy hashtags, and influencer partnerships, it’s easy to think that marketing success is all about flashy content or high ad spend. But for boutique gyms, personal trainers, and fitness brands trying to build something sustainable and rooted in trust, the most powerful marketing strategy starts not with clicks, but with community.
At KR Creative, I believe marketing should be authentic, empowering, and transparent. These values aren’t just buzzwords—they’re the foundation of strategies that actually drive long-term growth and retention.
“Fitness businesses that lead with community see more than just better numbers; they create spaces people want to return to again and again.”
Community-first marketing builds trust.
According to a recent IHRSA summary, 68% of gym members say a strong sense of community is a top reason they stay with their current gym. People want to feel like they belong, not like they're being sold to. When you prioritize authentic relationships—through in-person events, social engagement, or real conversations—you turn members into ambassadors.
One example: a "Run & Flow" event series I hosted in Seattle grew from 70 to 150 attendees in less than a year. We hired BIPOC instructors and centered the BIPOC running experience—not only did attendance grow by over 200%, but we saw increased new guest acquisition in-store, from 7% to 15%. Those results didn’t come from a paid ad campaign—they came from creating something people felt connected to and leveraging community partnerships to get the word out.
And sometimes, that connection sticks in unexpected ways. Last summer, I kept sharing how much I loved the gym I went to—just casually, in conversations and online. This year, I’m their marketing consultant. Recently, someone I hadn’t spoken to in months inquired about a gym membership, and when I asked what made them choose this gym they said, “You loved that gym so much—I remembered you telling me a year ago, and now I’m looking to join for the summer.” That’s the power of community-first visibility: genuine enthusiasm turns into long-term brand recall.
The importance of community isn't just anecdotal. A Berkeley Haas study found that people who work out with a friend are twice as likely to stick with a fitness routine compared to solo exercisers, and gym visits increased by 35% when a workout buddy was involved.
UKActive’s 2025 report also notes a cultural shift among Gen Z, who increasingly view gyms as preferred social spaces—not just workout locations. That’s a huge opportunity for fitness brands to become part of someone’s lifestyle, not just their schedule.
Community strengthens retention.
The fitness industry averages 30–50% churn annually, especially in January when resolution-driven memberships taper off. But when you build a business rooted in belonging, people stay. At lululemon, I helped reduce team turnover from 83% to 66% year over year by focusing on cultural fit and inclusive programming. Those same principles apply to client relationships: if members feel seen, included, and part of something bigger than themselves, they stick around.
The Health & Fitness Association emphasizes that members who develop friendships at their gym are three times more likely to stay long-term. Smart Health Clubs echoes this: community events can increase member engagement by 35%.
Community leads to content that resonates.
Marketing isn’t just about what you say—it’s about how your audience sees themselves reflected. By centering your community in your messaging, your content becomes more relevant, more human, and more powerful. Think member highlights, collaborative events, behind-the-scenes content, or even polls about what classes to offer next.
At Blinnergy, I manage content that prioritizes community-first storytelling. Our engagement rates are strongest when we feature real member voices, wellness experiences, and educational posts that reflect our values. This isn’t coincidence. It’s what happens when you market from the inside out.
Here’s what community-first marketing actually looks like:
Community-first doesn’t mean abandoning strategy. It means aligning your strategy with what your people actually care about.
Host in-person events that reflect your members’ identities and needs (e.g., cultural heritage celebrations, themed movement series)
Showcase your clients, not just your coaching
Create two-way communication: polls, Q&As, IG lives, open forums
Partner with local brands to create shared value and cross-promotion
Build feedback loops and act on them visibly
These aren’t just nice-to-haves. They’re retention tools. They’re lead generation tools. And they make your brand unforgettable.
Final Thoughts
When you build community, you build trust. When you build trust, you build longevity. And that’s what makes your marketing actually matter. Not just more followers or reach—but deeper relationships, higher retention, and a fitness business that grows with heart.